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13 lessons to teach your kids for a happier future.

Children are our future generations, every parent wishes success for their kids. But imagine a kid who has everything in life but is still not happy and statisfied with his life - these life lessons will give him something to think about and a happy and complete tomorrow.

1. Believe in yourself, be original and genuine. Learn to enjoy the process, because when you reach your destination it is a momentary bliss.

2. Treat others the way you would like to be treated

3. Do not give so much power to others that they control how you feel and behave. You are the only person who has the right and control over your brain to make yourself feel the way you want to feel about your self worth.

4. Be your own biggest critic. Try to compete against your own best and not against somebody else’s best. This is how some of the best Olympians practice and excel in what they do

5. Be Positive, the positive energy will surround you and you will always be attracted to good in life. The more you think negative you will make negative things happen in your life

6. Be very open minded, no idea is a right and wrong idea, be a good listener. Listen to others views but act according to your own views.

7. Never be judgmental and form options based on others experiences. Every person has good qualities, focus on his goodness – it is the situation and the surrounding which forces the individual to behave the way they act.

8. Learn to Win-Win rather than Win-Lose. You do not have to make someone lose for you to win. You will achieve prolonged satisfaction if you learn to accomplish a win-win situation – this is the theory from Stephen R. Covey’s book – The 7 Habits of highly effective people.

9. There is always a shortcut or a right way to get success. Take the path in which you are not going to lose your image in your own eyes. Be proud and happy at your success, but humbleness is virtue to always embrace.

10. If you let someone oppress you or take advantage of your situation, you are at fault as much as the oppressor. As a human being when you are born on this earth there are some rights you are born with, nobody can take away those rights from you. Learn to know your rights from your privileges and act accordingly.

11. Be always hungry for knowledge, the moment you feel you know it all you have stopped progressing. Knowledge does not mean acquiring degrees or good marks. Media of knowledge can be anything good books, good music, art, culture, good TV programs.

12. When you accept someone in your life, be it a friend, a sibling, spouse - Love unselfishly. It’s a package deal accept him with his/her positives as well as negatives. Support him the most during undesirable actions – that’s when he/she needs your help the most to get through the situation. Guide through the situation instead of alienating.

13. Learn by others experiences, but in the process create your own experience - good or bad that's what life is all about.

BY mohini kamble. U.S.A.

Women security and Reservation….
Dear friend Aniruddha , thank you for thinking on this subject.
I know the questions raised by you are comman in India.
But I have clear idea about this.
1.The superiority complex in Man creates security problems
for Women.
2. The ignorance of Social importance of Women is been
neglected in Indian Society from hundreds of years.
3. In fact Women were treated as untouchables in the education
as well as security sector.
Thanks to Mahatma Fule and Savitribai Fule they made significant efforts in educating Women.
And the opinion about the Women’s Reservation.....
I feel ,it is a shame on Indian Democracy and Indian Society
that it took 14 years in Free India and hundreds of years in history to provide Women such Reservation.
We have forgotten that Lord Bramha himself allotted the
Finance Ministry to Mata Laxmi,
Education to Mata Sarasvati even
Security was also handled by Maa Durga.

More over I feel that the Women from backward classes should have internal reservation in the Women Reservation Bill because this sector of women need it more.
And The most important the Reservation should not be only 33% it MUST BE 50%.

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